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Slain Santee Woman ID'd as SDSU Employee, Suspect's Court Date Postponed

Mary Shojai, 62, was allegedly slain by a handyman she may have been dating.

A woman found dead last weekend at her Santee home was a San Diego State University administrator who was allegedly slain by a handyman she may have been dating, authorities said Wednesday.

Deputies responding to a report of a disturbance and possible fatality in the 10500 block of Strathmore Drive in Santee found the body of 62-year-old Mary Shojai in her house shortly before 10 p.m. Sunday.

Outside the residence was an acquaintance of Shojai's, 64-year-old Paul Carl Tomasini, suffering from non-life-threatening stab wounds, sheriff's Capt. Duncan Fraser said.

Tomasini was arrested on suspicion of murder and hospitalized under guard.

Authorities have not revealed how Shojai died or a disclosed a suspected motive for the slaying, though Fraser told reporters some of the victim's neighbors believed she had a romantic relationship with Tomasini, a handyman and fellow Santee resident.

The suspect's arraignment had been scheduled for this afternoon but was expected to be postponed due to a jail medical hold, according to the District Attorney's Office.

Shojai, the mother of two adult children, was director of student disability services for SDSU and had worked at the eastern San Diego campus for 37 years, according to a memorial posting on the university's website.

-City News Service

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Fotis Tsimboukakis May 21, 2013 at 03:56 pm
I think the communities, Santee here, should band together and raise that money for schoolRead More supplies,instead of the teachers. I for one would throw in the first $100. I think between the residents and the local businesses we could raise the $10,000 to $15,000 that I am guessing would be needed. In Scripps Ranch, where both my kids attended school, the parents banded together and covered a HALF A MILLION shortfall in no time about 9 years ago during the cuts. And you don't have to have kids in school now to contribute. I don't anymore,BUT GOOD PUBLIC education with the right tools BENEFITS ALL AND THE FUTURE OF AMERICA MOST OF ALL. So I am first.
Steven Bartholow (Editor) May 16, 2013 at 03:53 pm
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Steven Bartholow (Editor) May 16, 2013 at 10:34 am
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Steven Bartholow (Editor) May 17, 2013 at 10:01 am
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Mike Walker April 23, 2013 at 01:20 pm
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